My Wishlist
Feeling exposed! A short, intentional list.
Across pretty much every price point, I’m a “let me think about it” shopper. I don’t really impulse buy—whether it’s a $200 piece or something far more unhinged. I need time. I need to simmer. I need to open my Notes app, close it, reopen it, and think about it some more.
Which makes sharing my wishlist feel oddly intimate—like a peek into how my brain works when I’m deciding what’s “worth it.” These aren’t fleeting wants or late-night scroll saves; they’re the pieces that have stayed on the list after weeks, months, and sometimes years of thought (just because I want something doesn’t mean I can always justify the purchase). And since so many of you have asked, I’m leaning in. This is the list. Not all will be purchased, but all are considered.
Steve Madden Slinky30 Sandal ($90)
The ’90s called and I’m answering. An easy yes for warm-weather dressing—simple, flattering, and surprisingly versatile, methinks. Alex DiCapo Patel (the best best) shared these on Instagram (or somewhere), and I’m thrilled she did. Immediately influenced.
Jennifer Behr Tortoise Claw Clip ($98) & Tasha Jaw Clip ($168)
I’m a slut for a hair accessory, and I’ve been particularly fixated on tortoise lately. Proof that small accessories can still feel special.
Tibi Belt Boat Bag ($475)
Functional but cool—a rare balance. I keep coming back to this— something that makes shlepping feel considered.
Bottega Veneta Marella Thong in Butterscotch & Parco Mule in Sea Salt (both $1,00)
Two very different moods, both equally compelling. The Marella Thong is minimal in the way Bottega does best—easy, refined, and deceptively versatile, the kind of warm-weather shoe that elevates everything. The Parco Mule feels slightly more directional but just as wearable, polished enough to anchor an outfit without overpowering it. Torn between ease and structure here. But my summer closet yearns for one of them, for sure.
SL 872 ERIN Sunglass in Dark Havana Grey ($420)
A timeless shape with just enough presence. These feel like a strong long-term accessory—though I’ll need to see them on. You’ll recall I’ve worn my Khaite x Oliver Peoples 1998C (from 10 Items I’d Buy 10 Times Over Vol. 1) into the ground and fully plan to keep doing so, but I like the idea of an alternative that isn’t a metal frame. I have the Prada 49MM, and this feels like a smart refresh.
Pebbled Leather Tote from Etsy ($170)
A reminder that great style doesn’t have to come from major fashion houses—and so often is label-less. The shape, the size, the slouch that will come with good wear… she’s beautiful.
Woven Leather Ballerina Flats ($1,150)
Chic, comfortable, and quietly hardworking in a wardrobe. I tried them on and can confirm they’re perfect. It’s not a matter of if, but when.
Shearling Lined Leather Coat ($3,590)
A true forever coat. This masterpiece has had me in a chokehold since I first saw it; structured enough to elevate anything, relaxed enough to wear daily. The kind of piece you buy once and build outfits around for years.
My birthday is in February and I think she might be the one.
Three Row Moissanite Cigar Ring ($770)
OOPS— I went and took her off the wishlist. Couldn’t wait. Had to have it. Absolutely spectacular.
Vintage Brooch (~$500–$13,300)
Perhaps of the Chanel variety? But I’m open. A small but meaningful luxury I picture adorning a coat, blazer, or knit. I’ve been eyeing only vintage options—collected, timeless charm.
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Not all of these are meant to be purchased right now—or ever—and that’s okay. I think there’s value in letting things live on a wishlist long enough to teach you something about your style. Sometimes the wanting is the research.
I’d love to know what’s currently living on your wishlist—the piece you keep coming back to but haven’t pulled the trigger on yet.
‘Til next time!
Vintage brooch so under rated